Love

How to Know You Don’t Love Her

There may come a stage in your relationship when you have been with your partner for a long time, where you do not feel happy any more. You may be hesitant to take your relationship to the next level, because you are not sure of your feelings. If you feel confused as to whether you really love your girlfriend or not, consider the following to determine if you are ready to move on with your relationship or not.

  • Consider who you turn to most often when you need advice, moral support or someone trustworthy or reliable to share your secrets with. If you find yourself turning more to your family member or friends rather than your girlfriend this may be an indication that she is not supportive, dependable or helpful.
  • How do you feel when you are away from her? Although it’s healthy to spend time apart in a relationship, it is not a good sign if you constantly prefer to be with friends rather than your girlfriend.
  • A little fantasizing and flirting with other women is normal, but if you are dreaming of dating other girls or worse, you started dating others, then know for sure you are not really into her. If you fantasize about other girls more often than your girlfriend, you are certainly looking for a better deal.
  • Imagine your future that includes your career aspirations, personal goals and family life. If you cannot envision your girlfriend in your future plan or you don’t include her in your future, you don’t really love her..
  • Consider whether you are making an effort to make your relationship work. If you do not care about what she says or you do not take her feelings into account then you simply do not care for her.

Analyze what you really feel and try and make sense of why you are still in the relationship.. You may care or like her as your close friend, but not as a lover or love her enough to take your relationship to the next level. Make sure that you are not just continuing this relationship out of habit, or just because you are scared to be alone or you are with her for social or financial reasons.

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